The summer
trip from our home in Rochester, New York to my mother’s childhood home in
Lowell, Massachusetts was an annual event. But the way we went about it was
almost never the same.
In the early
years, we took the train and experienced almost all of the emotions that could
be experienced. The joy of continually exhausting the supply of those conical
water-cooler Dixie cups that couldn’t provide enough water to keep a gnat
alive. The thrill of running up and down the cars, and up and down between the
cars virtually—if you believe the stories passed down—turning the train into our
own personal playground.
We’d manage
to get sick numerous times in the course of the thirteen hour trip. The
conductors were so frustrated by our antics that they’d warn mom the railroad
would not be responsible for any injury we sustained. Mom had to be plum tired at
journey’s end of both entertaining us and simultaneously trying to keep us from
hurting ourselves or anyone else.
So in time
uncle Jack began driving out to Rochester to pick us up, bringing us to Lowell,
then returning us home and finally returning home himself. In 1957, we got our first car, a Ford
Fairlane, and a whole new world opened up—and didn’t; because in spite of our
new freedom many things stayed the same.
For one thing,
the trip still took about thirteen hours driving—only now it was spread over
two days. We still managed to get sick
at some point, and often at many points.
Even though the New York State Thruway opened up in the same year, mom
always preferred to take the old roads—routes 20 in New York and 2 in
Massachusetts. These two roads were the
reason we could never make up any time on the train.
There was
never any question but that the 400-mile trip would take two days with a
stopover usually in eastern New York—more likely than not at the Auriesville
shrine in Fultonville, New York. This was the home of North America’s first
martyrs, French Jesuits killed by the Mohawk Indians in the 1640’s and the
birthplace 10 years later of Kateri Tekakwitha as these same Mohawks had a
change of heart.
We always
enjoyed this stopover but the next day it would be on the road again and an
endless succession of small town after small town and a journey that seemed to
never end. There was one other bright
spot though.
Outside of
Williamsport in the northwest part of Massachusetts, we’d make our annual stop
at what we all believed to be the coldest river in the world—keeping in mind
that our world at that time consisted of the states of New York and
Massachusetts. Still the river was cold
and we would always stop there and take off our shoes and socks and jump from
one slippery rock to another.
I remember
asking mom the name of the river and her replying that it was the Cold River. I
have always believed that calling it, the Cold River was quite a coincidence or
suspiciously—something she had just made that up because she could get away
with it.
Except that there was more. Back in the car and on the road again, as I left the river I saw this sign. Now that’s as good as it gets. Sorry mom for ever doubting you.
I was in that area recently and stopped at the river, and took off my shoes and socks, and again, for old time’s sake hopped from one slippery rock to the next and thoroughly enjoyed myself and thought to myself that this was as good as it gets.
Except that there was more. Back in the car and on the road again, as I left the river I saw this sign. Now that’s as good as it gets. Sorry mom for ever doubting you.
I was in that area recently and stopped at the river, and took off my shoes and socks, and again, for old time’s sake hopped from one slippery rock to the next and thoroughly enjoyed myself and thought to myself that this was as good as it gets.
Except that there was more. Back in the car and on the road again, as I
left the river I saw this sign. Now
that’s as good as it gets. Sorry mom forever doubting you.
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